- Know that no man is the same in one aspect. When you first see or meet him, You have to ask him to hang out quickly before his attention is lost, though, because there are plenty of other options out there for him. Ask him out to a movie where the distraction will take away a bit of the first date awkwardness.
- Smile. Smiling is contagious. Key, keep eye-contact, while smiling. This keeps the tension in the air flirty and fun.
- Approach him. Usually a hug is a great way to start
- Joke and be fun.
- Don't act weird unless that is your personality. Laugh occasionally at what the guy says, he'll be happy to know that you find him funny. If he enjoys the attention, he'll be more likely to hang out with you again.
- Make eye contact. Sure, it may be scary, but this will help him know how you feel. Make sure you are smiling while you do it, and do not do it for too long. It's not a staring contest. Just a quick look.
- Be nice to him. Guys don't like it when you're mean. Be pleasant and don't pick at him. If he's not the shy type, you can kind of tease him in a friendly, funny way if they are pretty silly themselves.
- Be yourself. Don't pretend to be someone you are not for the guy. You want him to like you for you, right?
- If you are out with a group, make sure you also talk to your other friends. He may find it uncomfortable.
- Let him do some of the chasing too. Guys enjoy a challenge, so don't make it too easy to be with you, but don't make it too hard. Just be casual.
- Remember, you are an awesome girl, who will make an awesome guy be proud being with you. If you get rejected, do not be upset, just move on.
- Try asking him if he knows someone you do know. It's a simple thing, and fairly easy to do if you sum up the courage. Try to bend it into a light conversation, but don't make it too obvious. If he seems uninterested, back off.
- Think about what you want to say to him before you talk to him, practice your expressions and sentences to mold it into a friendly manner.
- Gently brush his arm or something while passing. Not too hard, just like it was an accident. It'll get him thinking. Try brushing off pretend fuzz or picking off a pretend hair. Make him comfortable with contact gradually.
- Remember not to laugh at everything and anything he says. It'll annoy him.!!!(advice for me hahah)
- Compliment him. Make him feel good but don't compliment him too much; he might get annoyed.
- Try to talk to him about things he likes that makes small talk easier, and he'll catch on and will be more involved in the conversation.
- Don't annoy him. It is a possible way that he won't want to talk to you anymore. Also, don't stalk him. No one likes someone following their every move.
- Almost every guy will fall at the look of a pretty girl. Give him this chance. Be open with him and let him fall. After all, you like him, right?
- Charm, charm, charm! Be witty. Most guys can't stand to be away from a witty one. Be charming, winsome, and quick.
- Have fun! it sounds weird but it's really important! just relax. if you're all tense then he will feel tense.
- Try not to seem too available. Guy's don't like a girl that doesn't ever do anything, even if you have no plans say "oh I'll have to get back to you on that" if he asks you out for a date. ( the guy wont run away)
- Sometimes hard to get works. Guy's like something they have to work for. Make that "something" you and make him work. NOT TOO HARD and be nice about it...
- Don't be shy about talking to him! What's the worst that could happen?
- Don't think because one guy doesn't like you that the rest don't. Don't let one bad relationship take down the rest. Plenty of fish in the sea.
- Show off your personality! Don't be afraid to show off your fun side! Be yourself.
- Have fun, just don't get too carried away
Tips
- Ask him questions, but don't ask too many. Find out what his interests and hobbies are, but don't make it sound like you are interviewing him. Also, make sure he asks you some in return. This will show his level of interest.
- Just relax! Pretend the guy you are chatting with is just a family member-somebody you are comfortable around. Smile, show interest, and make eye contact on and off. This will definitely get any guy's attention.
- Don't act jumpy and weird. Guys hate that. It's a big turn-off. However, be fun and lively, as guys love a girl who can wake them up.
- Don't try to avoid them after talking the first time. Keep the conversation going!
- Don't talk trash about past relationships. Try to avoid them altogether, otherwise it will seem like you're still not over the person.
- Just act like yourself. If you normally act weird, then you might as well act weird! He is going to eventually figure out you're crazy. Hey, he may like that. haha
- Don't ask him out right away. These things take time.
- Be patient! He won't be panting after you after a few conversations; keep trying. If he's showing interest, it's worth it!
- Be yourself, no one likes it when a person is trying to be some one she/he is not; it's just plain unattractive. Just be yourself.
- If you're really shy and a friend pretty much has to drag you over to him in order for you to talk to him, don't let him see that. If you're really THAT shy, before you talk to him try thinking to yourself what you're going to talk about and just remember to be confident! (but not overly confident, you'll seem creepy).
- Don't be too calm around him. Then you'll just become a little boring. No one likes boring people!
- Don't ask too many questions when you talk to him, or he'll feel like you're in the FBI.
- Have him text you, don't always text him. It makes it too obvious that you like him & if he texts you that means he misses talking to you, which might mean he's interested.
- If he looks at something, don't look at the same place he did, he will catch you in the act and think you are watching him.
- Don't be shy because then they might think you don't like them as anything more than a friend, and if you are a shy person, you have to try to talk to him. What's the worst thing that can happen?
- Don't flirt with him every day, somedays just pretend your only a little interested. Usually, he'll start flirting back the next day or days.
- Don't worry too much about other girls, or bash on his ex's it could make him mad.
- Don't use your phone when you are around him. It is an extreme turn off, and can be misunderstood that you don't like him!
Life is cruel. No sometimes is no. There are 3 billion males on this planet, many of them are better than the lad you are pursuing.
TTYL , bitches ,and GOOD LUCK
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